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3 Nov

Thirty-First Sunday in Ordinary Time

Walk the Talk

Jesus often asks his disciples to practice what they preach—to walk the talk. This is appropriate behavior for religious leaders. Jesus accuses the scribes and Pharisees of power grabbing, of seeking greatness. “They tie up heavy burdens hard to carry and lay them on people’s shoulders, but they will not lift a finger to move them.”

Instead of heavy-handed teaching and interpretation, Jesus asks them to be aware of the need to walk the talk. Instead, he counsels them to be humble in their service. He reiterates the lesson Paul teaches about the gentleness of the nursing mother. The mother’s life is inseparable from the survival of her baby. She quietly disappears into the nurturing role, a role of coaching. Paul tells us that the best leadership is the kind that vanishes into its service.

This week is Vocation Awareness Week! Each of us has a unique vocation, a unique way of knowing, loving, and serving God.  Vocation awareness is not about power. It is about service. It is not about seeking greatness. Only God is great!

Today we have an invitation to name the persons in our lives who disappear behind their service. What lessons do they teach us? How can we “walk the talk” in our own lives? When we lay heavy burdens on others, how do we assist them? In what ways do we have lifting fingers?

We pray: O God, help our deeds match our words and nudge us to attend to one another as a nursing mother cares for her children.  Help us to know what it means to have lifting fingers and hands of service. Amen.

27 Oct

Thirtieth Sunday in Ordinary Time

How Do We Express Our Love for God and Neighbor?

Love for God and love for our neighbor are inseparable and complementary—just like the pairs of shoes we wear! You can’t have one without the other! Jesus refers to this as the greatest and first commandment. He also adds, “You shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.”

Just how is it that we express our love for God? Our love for neighbor? The lyrics of a song by Sister Kathy Sherman provide a musical reflection on just those questions. You can listen here:

Because We Love God from SSpS Australia-Fiji on Vimeo.

You can also find a prayer experience based on this song here: http://mercyassociationleadershipnetwork.blogspot.com/.

What does love of God and love of neighbor look like at St. Francis of Assisi? With which reasons for loving God do you/we most identify? For me, the experience of traveling to Haiti to drill a well that would provide water for the community is just that sort of inseparability of love of God and love of neighbor. For many of you, the same is true of Mobile Loaves and Fishes. Love of God impels us to both make sandwiches and to meet our neighbors who hunger for connectedness.

Our stretching most likely involves encountering the alien, the stranger, and persons who are not yet our friends. It involves all acts of mercy and compassion. That’s loving God with our whole heart, with all our soul, and with all our mind. May our feet walk the talk! We know the rules of the road—the journey that is ours as disciples.

20 Oct

Twenty-Ninth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Giving God What is God’s

What is Caesar’s? What is God’s? How do we answer this question in our lives today? What did Jesus imply in his answer to repay to Caesar what belongs to Caesar and to God what belongs to God. What really belongs to God?

In just over a week, our St. Francis community will celebrate 25 years of ACTS (Adoration, Community, Theology, and Service). During these years, there have been over 75 adult retreat teams that have spent 13 weeks each time “getting their act together”—forming themselves, paying attention to how God is working in their lives, how the Holy Spirit is animating them to use their gifts for the sake of the community, and in praising and thanking God for who they are “becoming” as a result of these actions, these ACTS!

For each retreat that is given, there is an equal number of retreatants who experience God’s love both personally and intensely. Just listen to the hundreds of parish members who have attended. They will tell you boldly and loudly that we bear the image of God and are to give to God what is God’s—our lives.

In very real ways, this is our experience of identifying and proclaiming what is God’s! All we have is a gift from God. Each of us, conceived in love, is a gift from God in our very being. All that we become through all of God’s formative processes—our worship, our study, our prayer, our practice of the corporal and spiritual works of mercy, our GIVING in every sense is acknowledging that all we have is a gift from God.

God’s work in our lives, God’s providential care is amazing and bounteous. For this, let us offer gratitude and praise. Let us be generous in our YES to using our gifts in service to others in our families, our vocations, our community, and our world!

13 Oct

Twenty-Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time

No Better Offer

Do you ever wait to RSVP to an invitation thinking that you might have a better offer? Even when the invitation is extended, I’ve had people ask me, “Would you come to our house for dinner with my family—unless you have a better offer?”

In this Sunday’s readings, there can be no better offer than the banquet Jesus proposes. Listen closely to all the banquet and feast language that is found in each of the readings. Imagine juicy, rich food and pure, choice wines, lavishness, abundance, goodness, and kindness. This festival language only begins to describe the fullness of life we will have in the presence of God, in God’s heavenly kingdom.

The invitation to the feast is extended each time we celebrate Eucharist. Our RSVP is both our presence, our expression of belief, and also a commitment to act. We are guests and we are also the ones doing the inviting. What happens to us, in our own conversion and transformation, becomes an invitation not only to stay on the path but also to invite others to enter the journey.

When Jesus says, “Go out, therefore, into the main roads and invite to the feast whomever you find,” Jesus is asking us to be inclusive at the table—to invite ALL. Jesus is asking us to enlarge the table, to make the circle expansive, to welcome those least expected to be participants.

This is our way of preparing for the ultimate banquet—the reign of God! Ven al banquete! Come to the feast! There is no better offer! Help us clothe ourselves with gratitude, generosity, and mercy.

6 Oct

Twenty-Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time

Happy Feast Day!

What does it mean to celebrate the feast of our patron saint, Francis of Assisi? What does he teach us about how we are to live?

Most of us know something about him. We always think of the blessing of animals, the love of creation, statues and birdbaths. Beyond that, we might think of selling all and living poverty, of a peacemaking journey to a Sultan, a brotherhood of men and what they learned from each other. Visiting Assisi reminds us of the need for quiet, for simplicity and for an intentional “building up of the church.” That building up for us today is our great desire to be bridge-builders—to risk being community with friends we do not know yet, those we might not ever imagine welcoming into our midst.

Our Franciscan sisters and brothers teach us additional values that are their way of life and that offer something for us to reflect on as well. They teach us about contemplation, poverty, and conversion. Francis’ conversion story is a radical “turning around” from a focus on riches and possessions to a complete following of Jesus. That meant deep study of Scripture, lots of return to simple ways of just being with nature, and a refocus on what matters if we are disciples of Jesus.

At St. Francis, we celebrate by remembering why our community, our church came to be. Read our mission statement; better yet, sing it with us on Sunday. And let your prayer and reflection, your intentions and your actions be a response to Francis’ example to us all. Happy Feast Day!

Our Parish Mission Statement

We, the parish family of St. Francis of Assisi, formed in 1980, are gifted with wisdom, productivity, and vitality. We are Sacramental people journeying toward our Christian mission to know, love, and serve Christ. To better know, love, and serve Christ, we strive to emulate our patron, St. Francis of Assisi by:

Focusing our greater concern on the building of our people, giving our time, talent, and treasures, in reaching out to others, and promoting peace and harmony within God’s creation.

29 Sep

Twenty-Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time

The Nature of Obedience

It’s not what you say! It’s what you do! Walk the talk!

These two common expressions sum up the Gospel parable we hear this weekend. Jesus is asking about the nature of obedience. Do we say “Yes” and then not do anything about it? Do we say “No” and then, upon mature reflection, decide that it really is the right thing to do? Who among the two is the obedient one?

Sometimes our reluctance, our hesitation to say YES might really be the right thing to do. And sometimes taking time to reflect and pray results in a YES that means something far more than we could have ever imagined!

Of the two sons (and yes today they could be daughters), which one needs to change? What counts more, saying some good words, or actually doing some good deeds?

Obedience is really about listening, about paying attention to the many “voices” and “choices” that influence us. Who of us has not said “No” and then relented and turned to God’s ways? God’s mercy calls each of us to do just that—turn to God’s ways of justice, mercy, compassion, and love.

Then we can truly live the words of the second reading: “…humbly regard others as more important than yourselves, each looking out not for his (her) own interests, but also for those of others.”

22 Sep

Twenty-Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Justice and God’s Generosity

Strict justice or outrageous generosity? You probably remember the parable of the workers in the vineyard. The workers come into the field at different hours of the day, all agreeing to work for the “usual daily wage.” They all want to work and they all want to be paid. This they all had in common.

But in the parable, at the end of the day, each gets paid the SAME amount, regardless of the hours they had worked. And here is where the grumbling begins. “These last ones worked only one hour, and you have made them equal to us, who bore the day’s burden and the heat.” Does this sound like anything you’ve ever experienced? Unfair?

We hear grumbling about some of the same kinds of issues today. They usually come about because of what we understand to be “entitlement.” Why should I pay for something if I am not using it? Why should others get benefits if they are not paying the same amount into the system? I worked hard to earn this money. And another claims to have worked even harder.

In the parable Jesus says, “My friend, I am not cheating you. Did you not agree with me for the usual daily wage? Take what is yours and go. What if I wish to give this last one the same as you? Or am I not free to do as I wish with my own money? Are you envious because I am generous?”

I have to really reflect hard on what would happen if God’s grace were doled out based on people’s rules rather than God’s ways. What if God’s ways were like our ways, if God’s outrageous generosity did not exceed the level of simple distributive justice?

I’m sure that each of us has at some time received great, undeserved generosity. How does that experience help us understand this parable? What does it mean when Jesus ends the parable with “The last will be first, and the first will be last”?

Sometimes God seems to act unfairly, but it is really God’s generous justice in action. Perhaps having a bit more of God’s generous nature would help us all be more just.

15 Sep

Twenty-Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Forever Forgiving?

We all recognize the Gospel for this weekend—how many times must we forgive? Jesus turns it around once again to LOVE—forgive your brother from your heart. How often?  Forever!

Who is forgiveness for? I have been thinking and praying about this for a long time. Is there anything that can’t be forgiven? Is forgiveness based on conditions? I’ll forgive you if….I must admit that for a long time I waited for others to ask for my forgiveness. I was so hurt and so demanding of someone else to make it right.  I wanted justice.

And then I realized that I needed to be the one to forgive. Why?  Because I realized that not to forgive to is harbor anger, resentment, bitterness, and a heavy spirit. I realized that the words on a poster were true: “Forgiveness is unlocking the door to set someone free and realizing you were the prisoner.” Forgiveness is not for others.  It’s for me! Forgiving isn’t forgetting. Forgiveness gives rise to new life when the anger, resentment, and bitterness are given up for the sake of peace that helps us to be resilient in the face of anything that happens to us. Is there anything that can’t be forgiven? When we know and experience deeply God’s grace of forgiveness, we also gain the capacity to forgive. Then we can experience the gift of freedom that comes from forgiving others.

8 Sep

Twenty-Third Sunday in Ordinary Time

Be on the Lookout for the Greater Community

A theme of the Scriptures for this weekend is our shared responsibility in humanity’s journey to holiness. Ezekiel is appointed by God to be a watchman, a sentry, and even a prophet to Israel. Ezekiel is told that his destiny depends on the efforts he puts into convincing people to change their wicked ways. What does it mean today for us to be on the lookout for the greater community? What are we called to do?

I’ve been reflecting lately on who it is that I look out for—who are the people in my life, in my community, in my country that I look out for? What are they doing that makes me want to or need to look out for them? What situations are they in that require my using my voice or my acting on their behalf?

Our journey to holiness, consisting of multiple conversions or transformations in our lives, includes the capacity for our hearts to be open to hear God’s voice, especially when we recognize that our hearts are hardened. We can become so easily desensitized to others’ needs. We can become overwhelmed by all that is wrong with the world. We can begin to feel like nothing we do will make a difference. And we begin to grumble, or become angry, or just retreat from it all.

When Paul writes to the Romans, he reminds them that the only thing we are to owe to one another is love. So what does love demand of me when it comes to “looking out for” those who have benefitted from DACA and are now being threatened with deportation? When we think of the flooding that so many are experiencing, what does love demand of us when we begin to examine how ignoring environmental concerns in favor of housing needs and population growth has “unintended consequences?”

Does God still send watchmen or watch-women to address injustice in the world today? Who are they? Do we have a shared responsibility for others and for the world? Are you a “watch-person” in some way? What seems unjust as you watch? How can we find new ways of bringing justice and God’s love into the lives of those we care for? Into our workplace? Into other places in your life?

1 Sept

Twenty-Second Sunday in Ordinary Time

Like Fire Burning in My Heart

For a week now, most of us have been praying desperately and with grit, almost unendingly, for safety for ourselves and for those we love. I wonder if there is anyone in San Antonio that has not been affected by the hurricane and subsequent floods. We see the images of suffering, and we hurt for others. In some ways, our lives are not unlike those of the prophet Jeremiah.

Jeremiah doesn’t like his suffering any more than any of us like seeing the suffering of so many around us. Even so, he cannot stop speaking of God—“it is like a fire burning in his heart, imprisoned in my bones; I grow weary holding it in, I cannot endure it.”

So what is it about God that is searing our hearts? What is the message that God speaks to us in the midst of our anxiousness, our sorrow, our compassion-fatigue?

Jesus’ words in the Gospel for this weekend are particularly meaningful for us today. “Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me.” I have cried often these days. I cry not just for the losses of so many, but also at the sight of those who are willing to deny themselves and take up the cross of compassion to help in whatever way they can, to support in prayer and in physical assistance, to work endlessly to “rescue” in body and in spirit those who are in most need of our mercy.

And I have prayed the prayer of St. Francis over and over again.  Here it is:

Lord make me an instrument of your peace
Where there is hatred let me sow love
Where there is injury, pardon
Where there is doubt, faith
Where there is despair, hope
Where there is darkness, light
And where there is sadness, joy

O divine master grant that I may
not so much seek to be consoled as to console
to be understood as to understand
To be loved as to love
For it is in giving that we receive
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned
And it’s in dying that we are born to eternal life