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02 Feb

To Celebrate a Life of Love: Gloria Esquivel

December 28, 1938-January 19, 2021

Gloria Fritchey Esquivel, born to Salvatore and Maria Guido in San Antonio, TX on December 28, 1938, went to be with the Lord on January 19, 2021. She was preceded in death by her parents, sisters Ernestine Finn, Nancy Miorelli, Rosalie Orsatti, and brother, Gene Guido. She is survived by her husband, Daniel Esquivel, and son, Pat Fritchey, sister, Frances Marotta, and many loving nieces and nephews. She was employed at Brooke Army Medical Center for approximately 40 years. She received her Bachelor’s and Master’s Degree from Southwest Texas State University, where she was a member of Phi Beta Kappa National Honor Society. She enjoyed playing bingo and trips to Las Vegas and other destinations. The family will receive friends from 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm, on Monday, February 15, 2021, at Porter Loring Mortuary with a Rosary beginning at 7:00 pm.

A private interment to follow. In lieu of flowers, a memorial donation in Gloria’s name may be made to Discalced Carmelite Nuns of San Antonio (6301 Culebra Rd. San Antonio, TX 78238).

29 Jan

Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time

By Whose Authority?

At one time or another, each of us has sought a mentor or a guide when it comes to making moral decisions—when seeking to do the right thing. We seek someone with experience, with wisdom. We seek someone who will be honest and compassionate, someone who wishes us well. A mentor or guide may tell us things that are hard to hear, but upon deep reflection, our hardened hearts can listen again.

Jesus was human, just like us. As a teacher, Jesus taught the people as one having authority, an authority very different from that of the scribes. The scribes were famous for winning arguments and destroying their opponents. Jesus, on the other hand, invited his followers—his disciples—to see as God sees, to love as God loves.

Jesus spent his life teaching about the kingdom of God, what God sees and what God loves, what God desires on this earth as much as in heaven. Notice who Jesus spends time with, who he pays attention to—who matters to Jesus? Not the usual persons we would think of, I dare say. In that attentiveness, that ministering to “outcasts” we might identify some of the demons inside of us that need to “come out” or need to be cast out.

By whose authority do we live? Are there any scribes in our lives? When does Jesus’ authority prevail?

Alice Camille proposes 5 new mysteries of the rosary in a new article in U.S.Catholic.

The first healing mystery:

Jesus restores the outcast to community

“Were not ten made clean? But the other nine, where are they?” (Luke 17:17)

They were lumped together as “unclean.” Nobody knows what afflictions they suffered. These lepers couldn’t be touched, were thrust from home and family, and were forced to live apart. Whatever infected them couldn’t have been worse than this awful isolation, as we know intimately.

Jesus, heal us from this pandemic. Restore our community to health and wholeness. May we remain grateful for the privilege of human gathering.

The second healing mystery:

Jesus rewards the woman of courage

“Take heart, daughter; your faith has made you well.” (Matt. 9:22)

She wasn’t supposed to be out in public, touching a man’s clothes, or cause a stir that would embarrass her family. But the hemorrhaging woman had suffered too much for too long to behave by social norms that didn’t serve her and couldn’t save her. She trusted Jesus. Good for her!

Jesus, bless the courageous ones who won’t sit quietly by and suffer without taking their destiny in their own hands.

The third healing mystery:

Jesus frees the imperiled child

“Lord, have mercy on my son, for . . . he suffers terribly.” (Matt. 17:15)

This poor child fell often into fire and into water. He reminds us of all our children now suffering the effects of conditions they did nothing to cause and are powerless to change.

For all the ways in which the world’s children suffer—hunger, domestic abuse, impaired learning conditions, depression, anxiety, shame— Lord, rescue our children and restore their hope.

The fourth healing mystery:

Jesus heals the person suffering mental distress

“But Jesus rebuked him, saying, ‘Be silent, and come out of him!’ ” (Mark 1:25)

Demons haunt us all. But some, like this man who cried out to Jesus, are especially burdened. People who are emotionally fragile, or whose mental health was already compromised, suffer exceptionally from the pandemic conditions of stress, upheaval, and isolation.

Lord, we ask you to keep our vulnerable loved ones in your special care. Hold them in the palm of your hand and let them feel your constant protection.

The fifth healing mystery:

Jesus heals the Earth’s abundance

“So they cast [the net], and now they were not able to haul it in because there were so many fish.” (John 21:6)

Behind the realities of pandemic looms the greater danger of a world enduring the cumulative effects of exploitation, greed, indifference, and ignorance. Climate change is changing the rules of our future survival.

Merciful Lord, this creation is your first and best gift to us. Give us the wisdom and the will to transform our global commitment to the planet that is our home.

28 Jan

Divine Mercy Prayer Group

Our Divine Mercy Prayer Group invites you to pray the Divine Mercy Chaplet. We were formed by a small group of ACTS sisters from our parish of St. Francis as the country was shutting down in mid-March of last year for the pandemic. Since then, we have prayed for over 300 consecutive days! We meet every day for approximately 30-45 minutes. Some days there are four of us, some days there are 15. Either way, it is a blessing to have a group that is always there to pray for God’s “mercy on us and on the whole world.” Our group is also inspired by the writings of St. Faustina to spread Jesus’ holy will of  “Love and Mercy”  to the people around us and to the world.

28 Jan

To Celebrate a Life of Love: F. Michael Oakes

November 24, 1940-January 17, 2021

Fredrick Michael Oakes known as Mike, passed away on January 17th, 2021 at 3:15 am, the Hour of Mercy. He was 80 years old. Mike was born in Coral Ridge, Kentucky and was raised in Fairdale by parents Archie and Christine Oakes. He married his bride, Pamela Abrams, at 17 years of age. Mike and Pam celebrated their 62nd wedding anniversary on October 4th, 2020.

Mike is a proud graduate of the University of Louisville. He was an avid college sports fan. Never missed a Louisville football or basketball game. His Kentucky family members would send him articles about UofL from the Courier Journal, so he was up to date on the happenings with his team!

Mike loved his family deeply. He always embraced an opportunity to be with his four children and many grandchildren. He loved his Kentucky family and friends as well. He traveled back to Kentucky yearly to see everyone. Mike was a kind man and treated everyone with respect; always offering words of encouragement. His gentle spirit will be missed.

Mike had a long career in the insurance industry in various positions starting with Aetna Casualty & Surety and ending as a Marine Adjuster/Litigation Specialist through Crawford & Company Houston, Texas.

Mike is survived by his wife, Pamela R. Abrams Oakes; son, Michael Oakes (Jeannie); daughter, Gigi Kershner (Daniel); daughter, Maria Lisa Poole (Dana); daughter, Gina Korsi (Richard); sister, Caroline French (Larry); grandchildren: Tori Poole, Shelby Korsi Olson, Samantha Oakes, Jeremy Korsi (Kayla), Mickala “Micki” Oakes, Kyle Kershner; chosen grandchildren: Chase Kershner, Michael Devon (Haley), Patrick Devon; great-grandchildren: Evan Olson and Baylee Korsi.

Due to COVID-19, the family has elected to have a private ceremony on February 4th at Porter Loring North and the burial, February 5th at Holy Cross Catholic Cemetery. We thank you for your prayers as we lay our loving Father to rest.

22 Jan

Third Sunday in Ordinary Time

A Word of God

“Teach me your ways, O Lord.” In this week’s Scripture readings, we learn that one of the “ways” is repentance. The people of Nineveh certainly changed their ways when Jonah announced their destruction in 40 days! According to this story, God’s mind changed when their actions showed that they had turned from their evil ways. The change that we call repentance is also the change that we call conversion. The people of Nineveh turn from whatever separated them from God because the prophet Jonah announced the consequences of their evil ways.

Likewise in Mark’s Gospel, we hear some of the first recorded words in Jesus’ beginning ministry. “This is the time of fulfillment. The kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the gospel.” Again, the way is one of repentance. It also requires that we leave everything behind that distracts us from making God the center of our lives or that presents an obstacle to our new mission to believe in and LIVE the gospel. Indifference (to injustice, suffering), silence and complicity, selfishness, neglect of our neighbor—none of these are part of the new way, the new path. Followers of Jesus know that living a Christian life is a continuous process of discernment and formation. This weekend again, we have the opportunity to discern the path, the way that we are being called to live. What must we leave behind in order to continue our baptismal journey? What are some of the evil ways, the social sins that we need to repent of? What are some concrete things that we can do to show that we love God above all?

Together, we ask: “Teach us your ways, O Lord.” For this let us work and pray!

15 Jan

Second Sunday in Ordinary Time

Wake Up Call

What are you looking for? Where are you staying? Come and see! In John’s gospel this weekend we hear about succession and a transfer of power. John transitions his followers into being followers of Jesus by first naming Jesus as Teacher. Jesus then asks Andrew: What are you looking for? Perhaps Andrew was befuddled and like most of us today answers the question with another question—Where are you staying? Jesus responds with strong, but inviting action words—Come and see! And they stayed with Jesus. And Jesus changed their names!

Imagine that Jesus is asking us the same question: What are you looking for? For yourself? For your family? For our parish community? For our country? Can you STAY with Jesus and let Jesus inform you? Where do you go to “come and see?”

This conversation is really about discernment—seeking new information from reliable teachers, seeing and listening with a new, inquiring spirit and the openness to hear challenges, often beyond our understanding at the moment. It is about searching for what God wants of us, for us.

Many of us are overwrought with fear of COVID and with concern for what’s happening in the transfer of power in our country after a difficult election period. These are life-changing times and hopefully we are asking Jesus where Jesus is staying today, in all of this conflict and confusion. Are we taking the time to “come and see” what Jesus is revealing to us in all of this?

In the other “call” narrative we hear this weekend, Samuel hears a call in his dreams. His response is quick and repetitive. Three times he mistakes who the caller is and confidently responds: “Here I am.  You called me.” It is Eli who convinces Samuel to respond differently with “Speak, Lord, for your servant is listening.” Eli understood that this call was coming from the Lord. Eli helped Samuel to discern this call and what it meant. Samuel’s response changed and the words he used mattered.

We learn that the young Samuel grew up and the Lord was with him, not permitting any word of his to be without effect.

Eli’s guidance provides a different perspective, not simply Samuel’s own thinking of what his response should be. Samuel announces to the Lord that he is listening and that he is listening to the voice of God in everything, at all times. He listens with humility and a desire to serve God, rather than his own interests, and the Lord blesses Samuel, “not permitting any word of his to be without effect.”

Can we be like Samuel? After listening and discernment, seeking different perspectives, what words do we choose to use? Words matter! May our words have the Lord’s blessing!

8 Jan

The Baptism of the Lord

Come to the Water

Last year on this feast, Pope Francis reminded us of several things!

We rediscover our own Baptism in the Feast of the Baptism. Just as Jesus is the Beloved Son of the Father, we too, reborn by water and the Holy Spirit, know we are loved children—the Father loves us all!—the object of God’s satisfaction, brothers and sisters of many brothers and sisters, assigned with a great mission to bear witness and proclaim the Father’s boundless love to all mankind. -Pope Francis, Angelus, January 12, 2020

Several years ago at SFA, we attached paper drops of water to a tree branch across from our baptismal font. Written on them were our names and the date and place of our Baptism. Some were able to do this quickly; others had to do substantial research! What we all learned from this activity was a renewed sense of what Pope Francis says—we rediscovered our own Baptism. In doing that, we also spent time reflecting on the meaning of this sacrament and both the grace and the responsibility that comes from reception of the sacrament. What does it mean to be reborn by water? By the Holy Spirit? What are we being reborn to—in our being and in our actions? When do we know that we are the object of God’s satisfaction? That we are beloved? Baptism makes us brothers and sisters to many brothers and sisters. When are we most aware of that? When do we forget? And when do we fulfill our mission of bearing witness and proclaiming the Father’s boundless love to all? Jesus spent his life fulfilling His mission of compassionate care for those often “left out” or avoided, for those who did not have access, and those with need for healing. Our Baptism calls us to that same mission, one that requires us to come to the water. May we be blessed in our efforts!

1 Jan

The Epiphany of the Lord

Stars of Light

We are drawn to light. We seek light in the darkness. So many of us eagerly waited to see the “Christmas Star” that graced our vision just before Christmas. Did we imagine the star that guided the Magi?

The Magi followed the light of a star to find the light of the world, Jesus. Who or what has lit the way for you, guided you toward Jesus, shown you the love and mercy of God, and helped you to see Christ in all people?

St. Paul reminds us that the star’s light shines on each and every person, unique and precious in  God’s eyes. No exceptions! Jews and Gentiles, women and men, people of all skin color tones are the recipients of God’s light. Do we search for the light in persons who are different—who look different, who think differently, who love differently, who believe differently?

God warned the Magi not to return to Herod because he knew what was in Herod’s heart. Herod feared the light. Jealousy and greed kept him from an encounter with Jesus. Jealousy and greed led to his desire to eliminate Jesus, resulting in the slaughter of many innocent children. How does jealousy and greed distract us, even desiring to extinguish the light, the life in others?

The Magi, following God’s warning, went home by a different path. Pope Francis, in recent publications, reminds us that the pandemic has brought us to a crossroads too. We have the opportunity to choose a different path. Pope Francis says we must use this decisive moment to end our superfluous and destructive goals and activities and to cultivate values, connections, and activities that are life-giving. Many of us have used the time we have been given to read, to educate ourselves about differences, to think differently—to choose a different path, to find another way home. Even the home we know has changed.

When God reveals to our understanding something of God’s self, we call this gift an epiphany. Where will the star lead us? What path, what different way home will we find and follow? Who will be our companions on this journey? Will our light attract others to follow the same path?

May we be epiphanies to each other, overflowing with love and extravagant care for each other. Make us shining stars that lead others to Jesus! For this, let us all work and pray!

29 Dec

To Celebrate a Life of Love: Arlene Kreitz Hengst

November 11, 1931-December 19, 2020

Arlene Kreitz Hengst entered eternal rest December 19, 2020 at the age of 89.
Born November 11, 1931 in San Antonio, Texas to Elizabeth and Anton Kreitz, Arlene was a life-long resident of the city. She attended St. Cecilia’s Catholic School and graduated from Incarnate Word High School in 1947, with a focus in piano performance. After attending business school, she worked at Brooks Air Force Base and Straus Frank Company.

She met the love of her life, Lawrence Hengst, at a local dance. She often told her children that she loved Larry’s beautiful blue eyes and his dancing skills. They were married 50 years, during which time she supported and assisted her husband’s homebuilding company while raising 4 children. She worked tirelessly for her children as a room mother and PTA member. As her children grew, she and Larry volunteered many hours with the Churchill High School Band Parents in support of group and individual performance and competition.

As a devout Catholic, Arlene lived her faith in many ways. She was one of the founding members of Blessed Sacrament and Holy Spirit parishes in San Antonio. She shared her gift of music as a church organist and choir member and lector. After suffering the loss of her son Ross in 1976, she offered compassion and a listening ear to many who suffered similar losses. She was a natural caretaker to anyone who needed help, especially in the care of her parents and in-laws in the last years of their lives. She spent her last years as a parishioner of St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church in San Antonio.

Arlene’s greatest joy in the second half of her life was being Grammy to her grandchildren. She loved to celebrate birthdays, holidays, and everyday life with joy and generosity. Whether taking the children camping, attending school concerts, or shipping surprise gifts by way of the ‘big brown truck,’ her best day was any day she got to speak to or hug one of her family members.

Arlene is preceded in death by her parents, her husband Larry and son Ross Alan Hengst. She is survived by children Lawrence Wayne Hengst of San Antonio, Karen Hengst May and husband Doug of McKinney, TX, Dianne Patricia Hengst of San Antonio, daughter-in-law Donna Nicol Hengst of San Antonio and grandchildren Ryan Hengst of San Antonio, Melissa Hengst of Las Vegas, NV, Allison May of Reno, NV and Caralyn May of McKinney, TX.

The funeral Mass will be held Monday, December 28, 2020 at 11:30 a.m. at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church. A graveside service will follow at Holy Cross Catholic Mausoleum and Cemetery. For those wishing to attend services virtually, you may do so at https://youtu.be/LcX-2RRM7eo.