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17 Aug

To Celebrate a Life of Love: Catherine “Katie” Bell

July 4, 1923-August 9, 2020

Catherine O’Neil Bell (Katie) died on August 9, 2020 in San Antonio, Texas. Katie was born on July 4, 1923 in Calumet, Michigan (on the “south shore of Lake Superior” as she liked to tell everyone), the first child of James O’Neil and Katherine Torreano O’Neil. She was joined two years later by her sister Marion who always wondered why there were fireworks, parades, and picnics on Catherine’s birthday, but not hers!

Katie graduated from Calumet High School and began her nursing studies in Duluth, Minnesota at the College of St. Scholastica. She completed her Bachelor of Science in Nursing at Marquette University in Milwaukee, Wisconsin.

While working a summer job at the Keweenaw Country Club she briefly met John Frederick Bell (Fritz) who had been doing research on Isle Royal (he was an MD- Ph.D. virologist). They met again later at a wedding and that began a long-distance courtship culminating in their marriage on May 3, 1947. Their first home was in Bethesda, MD where Fritz, a commissioned officer in the USPHS, began work at the National Institutes of Health. Their son Michael was born in Bethesda. In 1949 they moved to Hamilton, MT where Fritz continued his research at the Rocky Mountain Laboratory. Their daughter Martha was born there in 1951. Katie was very involved in her community. She was a club-champion golfer, a skier, a member of the League of Women Voters (serving a full term as Secretary of the Montana State chapter), the Ravalli County Democratic Women and St. Francis Parish (where she was the first elected president of the Parish Council).

She also loved the travel that Fritz’s work offered them. They especially enjoyed their assignments in Argentina and Kenya.

Katie continued to live in Hamilton after Fritz’s death in 2000. Later, as winters became more difficult to manage alone, she transitioned to San Antonio to be closer to her daughter and family. For the last eight years she made her home at Brookdale in Alamo Heights where the staff gave her the best care imaginable and where her daughter could visit almost every day.

Katie is survived by her son Mike Bell and wife Anne, their children Ryan Bell and Erin Bell Rubin and grandchildren Evan Bell, Quinn and Westly Rubin. She is also survived by her daughter Mardi Bell Baron and husband Bob, their children Mary Baron and Michael Baron, and grandchildren Jacob, Robert and Gregory Johnson and Louis Baron.

Katie’s ashes will be placed with Fritz’s on their former farm in Montana. The family will hold services there when travel is once again safe for everyone.

You are invited to sign the Guestbook at www.porterloring.com.

13 Aug

To Celebrate a Life of Love: Charles Chacon, Jr.

September 17, 1942-August 11, 2020

Charles Chacon, Jr., 77, passed away in the early morning hours of August 11, 2020, at San Antonio Military Medical Center. He is now in the presence of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

Charles was born on September 17, 1942 in San Antonio, Texas to Charlie Chacon and Odila Chacon. He was a retired Vietnam veteran who served 22 years in the U.S. Navy. He also worked 20 years with the Texas Department of Criminal Justice. Charles loved his job and made many friends while working at both Garza Units and McConnel Unit.

Charles and his wife, Adelfa Chacon, are members of St. Joseph Catholic Church in Beeville. He was a very hard-working, humorous, and generous man who will be missed dearly by all family, friends, and co-workers.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Charlie Chacon and Odila Chacon, and a brother, Robert Chacon.

Charles leaves behind his wife, Adelfa (Rodriguez) Chacon, whom he recently celebrated his 51st wedding anniversary with.

He is also survived by his son, Charles Paul (Sonora) Chacon; daughter, Rebecca Renee Chacon (Edward) Maldonado; sister, Irma (Truman) Hill; and brother, William (Maggie) Chacon. Grandchildren left behind include Amber (Zachary) Stuart, Lauren Chacon, Olivia Maldonado, Edward Maldonado II, Carlos (Ashlee) Serna and Lorenzo (Brittany) Serna. Charles was also blessed with five great-grandchildren, Hunter Stuart, Madilyn and Nolan Ashley and Grace and Leonardo Serna; and numerous nieces and nephews.

A Rosary will be recited at 9:30 a.m. Saturday, August 22, 2020 at St. Joseph Catholic Church followed by a Memorial Service at 10 o’clock.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to St. Joseph Catholic Church, 609 E. Gramman, Beeville, Texas 78102.

14 Aug

Twentieth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Intercessions: Voice and Action

Our mouths reveal our motives! I saw this on a poster this week, and it fits with the Gospel reading for this Sunday. The Canaanite woman persists in asking Jesus for something not for herself, but for her daughter. She gives voice to her daughter’s torment. Even after Jesus’ disciples, his bodyguards at times, insist that Jesus tell her to go away, even after Jesus doesn’t answer her at first, and even after she might have heard the reference to a dog as quite insensitive, she persists in asking. And Jesus responds to her: “O woman, great is your faith! Let it be done for you as you wish.” And her daughter is healed.

The Canaanite woman uses her voice to advocate for someone she knows is suffering. Her cries seem to be unheard. People tell her that she is a menace and should go away. Every obstacle seems to be put in her path. She, however, is persistent in asking, in moving her feet, and in using her voice.

This woman of faith, as Jesus names her, gives us a model—a pattern of persistence in prayer. Catholics call this intercessory prayer. We pray for our own needs and we pray for others, especially those among us who are suffering “torment.” What prayers of intercession are you praying for these days? How do we act when our prayers go seemingly unanswered? What do we do when what we pray for is the opposite of what others pray for? Or when others consider us a nuisance for remembering the poor, the suffering, and the persecuted among us? What attitudes do we have about those who move their feet and their mouths in protest, in lament at injustice? Even if we don’t feel the injustice, are we willing to accompany those who do? Even when we are called names for doing so?

Let’s listen carefully this weekend to the Prayers of the Faithful voiced at Mass. Are we sincere in our petition? What other prayers will we add to them?

Our mouths do reveal our motives! And another post reminded me:  “Don’t ask God to guide your footsteps if you aren’t willing to move your feet.” I have for years now been responding to prayers of petition with “Lord, hear our prayer and move us to act.” And in the process, may we all be healed—we who pray and those we pray for.

10 Sep

Love is Never Quarantined

Dr. Margie McKeon walks you through 12 steps for developing loving relationships in this article. Dr. McKeon is a long-time resident of Rockwall, Texas. Along with her husband, Dr. David McKeon, she earned her doctoral degree in Counseling with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy from Texas A&M, Commerce, Texas. The McKeons have been serving the Rockwall community and surrounding areas as licensed Marriage and Family therapists for over 30 years.

7 Aug

Nineteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

The Lord Will Be Passing By

Then the Lord said, “Go outside and stand on the mountain before the Lord; the Lord will be passing by.” Like Elijah, we are staying in our “caves” seeking shelter. We seek shelter from all that causes dis-ease in our lives—hurricanes, fires, COVID-19 and other illness, loss of jobs, and losses of all kinds. We are all experiencing fear. Perhaps the Lord is inviting us too, to stand before the Lord wherever our mountain is, and seek the Lord who will be passing by.

So let’s show up, pay attention, and tell about it. Where are we encountering the Lord passing by so far today? Did you hear the voice of someone you love and miss? Did you see a beautiful sunrise or sunset? Was there an aroma that was new to you? Did your garden bear fresh vegetables? Did your child express curiosity about learning something new? Did a cloud shape remind you of something you need to pay attention to?

Like Peter in the boat during a storm, we can hear Jesus saying, “Take courage, it is I; do not be afraid.” Can we get out of the boat, out of the cave, and trusting the Lord, letting go of our fears, live in God’s promise that we are loved and cared for. Will we find the Lord passing by? Will we hear a tiny whispering sound?

A poem written by Kitty O’Meara has circulated in various places.  The links to video versions are here:

In the Time of Pandemic

And the people stayed home. And read books, and listened, and rested, and exercised, and made art, and played games, and learned new ways of being, and were still. And listened more deeply. Some meditated, some prayed, some danced. Some met their shadows. And the people began to think differently.  And the people healed. And, in the absence of people living in ignorant, dangerous, mindless, and heartless ways, the earth began to heal.  And when the danger passed, and the people joined together again, they grieved their losses, and made new choices, and dreamed new images, and created new ways to live and heal the earth fully, as they had been healed. — Kitty O’Meara.

04 Aug

To Celebrate a Life of Love: Deacon Tom Franklin

October 10, 1937-August 1, 2020

Deacon Tom was born on October 10, 1937 in Lakewood, Ohio to Rollen and Virginia Franklin. He returned to his Heavenly Father at the age of 82. He attended schools in North Olmsted, Ohio. He graduated from Case Institute of Technology in 1959 with a B.S. in Mechanical Engineering and a minor in Fluid Dynamics. He began working for Sohio Oil while finishing his degree and continued there after college. In 1963 he moved to NASA Lewis Research Center in Cleveland. In 1966 while reading an SAE magazine, Tom found an ad for a management position at Rohm and Haas’s new Spring House, PA Engine Laboratory. Tom managed that lab for 10 years, but his need to move on brought him to San Antonio, Texas in 1976 for an engineering position with Automotive Research. Several years later he began his own consulting firm, Franklin Research and Technical Services, Inc. He led and served on various committees for SAE and ASTM technical standards groups.

In 1983 he felt called to begin seminary studies to be ordained a Catholic deacon. He was ordained in 1986 and began his ministry at St. Francis of Assisi Parish in San Antonio where he served for 32 years. During those years he and Agnes began Small Church Communities as a continuation of the Renew Process. They educated Communion Ministers, started the ministry to the Sick and Homebound and educated ministers to serve. They served on team for Beyond Cana Retreats and its Outreach to other parishes. Deacon Tom developed the formats used during Holy Week Services and led the monthly Men’s Morning of Prayer. He never stopped learning and could be found at numerous classes at Oblate School of Theology. Wherever there was a need, he reached out and served.

In 2018 Tom suffered a head injury from which he never recovered. Blessings on Kennith Cooper who cared lovingly for Tom before his time at Alpha Senior Care. The family is most grateful for all their care and support through the COVID Pandemic when family could not spend time with him. Many blessings on all those who continued to pray for him and send him and Agnes well wishes, especially our faith community.

Deacon Tom is survived by his best friend, lover, and soul mate, Agnes, with whom he shared 62 years of married life. Together they raised six sons, five of whom survive today; Thomas (& wife Amber), Daniel (& wife Pamela), Mark (& wife Cheri), John (& wife Cynthia), Joseph (& wife Angela), and his nephew, Ralph (& wife Patricia), who came to be a part of our family in 1981. He enjoyed 20 grandchildren and 14 great-grandchildren, always with a smile on his face.

Those who have gone home to the Father before him are son, Paul & wife Monica, parents Rollen and Virginia Franklin, brother Rollen & wife Gloria, brother Robert & wife Helen, and sister Rosemary. Parents-in-law Joseph & Helen Borosh, sister-in-law Catherine & husband Louis Boehnlein, brother-in-law Joseph & wife Margaret Borosh.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be sent to St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church, Mobile Loaves & Fishes Ministry (http://sfasat.org/MLF/). You can leave a message in Deacon Tom’s guestbook at http://porterloring.tributes.com/obituary/guestbook/Deacon-Thomas-Franklin-108492189.

Services for Deacon Tom

Masks and physical distancing are required for all services. Seating is limited to 160. Please RSVP to St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church by calling 210-492-4600.

Visitation | 6:00-8:00 p.m. with Vigil Service at 7:00 p.m. on August 21st. Watch live at https://youtu.be/rCIDIEUpU6M.

Mass of Resurrection | 9:30 a.m on August 22nd. Please arrive 30 minutes early for seating. Watch live at https://youtu.be/ML0FvtB7JT4.

Burial for the family at 11:00 a.m. at Holy Cross Cemetery on Nacogdoches Rd.

All services to be held with the Catholic Community of St. Francis of  Assisi,  4201 De Zavala Rd., San Antonio, TX 78249.

31 Jul

Eighteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

All Ate and Were Filled

Feeding 5,000 (not counting women and children) is a phenomenal act of mercy. Feeding implies that there was hunger. Hunger must be satisfied or the people (and all of creation) may perish. Where do we find the resources to feed people, to feed the hungers of the world, of the universe? The hungers of the world include an end to hunger, poverty, war, racism, diseases, and others.

Jesus says, “There is no need for them to go away; give them some food yourselves.” When they ask him to give them time to go buy food, he asks them to gather what they have. And what they have, a few loaves and fishes, is ENOUGH! And there are leftovers!

How did that happen? Jesus took what they had to offer, blessed and broke their offerings, gave to them and they in turn gave to the crowds. They all ate and were satisfied.

When we consider the hungers of the world today, what gifts do we have to offer? How will God bless and break them? How will we be fed? And how will we pass that “feeding” on to others? And the gathering of the leftovers—do we really believe that there will always be enough?

For me, “Feed them yourselves” means offering the gifts I have been given by God, my abilities to donate money to organizations that feed the hungry and perform the other corporal works of mercy. I vote for candidates who recognize the dignity of all persons, who support living wages for all workers, who will lead in getting all people to work together. I continue to reflect on the Word and to share my reflections with others. I both pray and work for justice for all. And I work and pray that all hungers will be fed and all will be satisfied. Yes, all of this is about building the kingdom of God on earth. May God take, bless, multiply, and distribute what we offer to feed others.

30 Jul

To Celebrate a Life of Love: Glen Hartford

June 10, 1933-July 20, 2020

Glen Howard Hartford entered into eternal rest on Monday, July 20, 2020.

Glen was born June 10, 1933 in Sunburst, Montana. He graduated from Cut Bank High School, then served in the Air Force. He married Joan Matthews of Mobile, Alabama in 1956. Glen graduated from UT in 1959 with a BBA in accounting. He worked for Humble Oil, and Coastal States Gas in Houston, then moved to San Antonio where he continued working for Valero until he retired in 1991. He worked as an accountant for Jon Hart Designs for five years. Glen and Joan were members of St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church.

Glen is preceded in death by his wife, Joan Matthews Hartford; parents, Lewis and Minnie Hartford; and his five siblings, Deloris Thompson, and Cliff, John, Vernon, and Roy Hartford.

Glen is survived by three children, Steven (Lynn) Hartford of Waxahachie, Shaun (Mark) Danney of Fair Oaks Ranch, and Scott (Mellisa) Hartford of Bedford; and three grandchildren, Angela Danney, Nicholas Danney, and Blair Hartford.

We will have a graveside service to celebrate Glen’s life at Mission Burial Park North on Thursday, July 30 at 11:30 a.m.

24 Jul

Seventeenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Hunting for Pearls

What is “the pearl of great price” that each of us is seeking? What is it that is priceless and sometimes hard to find or to recognize in our lives today? Our first response—a cure for COVID-19! After all, we could go back to “normal life” if only we could rid ourselves of this virus. Of course, we all want to alleviate the suffering and we want to find a cure. Even when we find the cure, we know that we are changed by this experience.

I think this Gospel gives us lots to ponder. I think we are also seeking and finding new understandings as well as unearthing lots of misunderstandings. We are discovering a lot about ourselves and what matters most during this pandemic. In some ways, we have all become more vulnerable, and perhaps more able to hear the cries of those who are suffering. We are all suffering.

Solomon prayed: “Give your servant, therefore an understanding heart.” What is it that we are seeking to understand? Understanding requires deep listening. Are we listening to the pressures we are experiencing—choices about how to “school” our children, unemployment, evictions from homes, protests of injustice and reactions to them, the immigration status of human beings whose dignity doesn’t seem to matter, the climate crisis?

In Romans we read that “all things work together for those who love God.” How are we working together? The divisions we see—economic, political, religious—are not in my mind examples of working together. They are not unlike what Jesus experienced during his life, his ministry. What did Jesus do? He went against the culture of his time and acted to heal the injustices. He recognized the dignity of every person!

Pope Francis says the pearl is the Gospel. The treasures that come from this “pearl” are these graces: truth, mercy, and joy. The Scripture readings for this weekend provide not a cure for a virus, but in the hunting, the seeking, lure us to deeper insights into what is truly priceless. Let us be BOLD in naming what is priceless in our lives. Let us seek the kingdom of God on earth as it is in heaven. “Selling all we have” is about our sacrifice for the lives and dignity of all. May we be graced with truth, mercy, and joy.

17 Jul

Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Weeds AND Flowers?

In one of the parables that Jesus tells,  he encourages the growth of weeds alongside the flowers. That doesn’t quite sound right, does it? Surely, we think, the weeds will overcome the flowers. That’s the way I used to think too. But this parable is stretching me to think that there might be something that happens to me, that changes me, when I grow amongst the weeds. You notice that I am identifying with the flowers! What if I am a weed? What if I am sowing weed seeds?

In this time of conflicting ideologies, messages, and choices being made, I wonder what would happen if we truly occupied the same space, grew in the same garden, and were literally forced to co-dwell, to co-exist? Do I trust and hope that my effort, together with God’s, will bring about the coming off God’s desire for us?

Pope Francis encourages us in our time of suffering and our time of creating goodness and peace:

God’s Kingdom requires our cooperation, but it is above all the initiative and gift of the Lord. Our weak effort, seemingly small before the complexity of the problems of the world, when integrated with God’s effort, fears no difficulty. The victory of the Lord is certain: his love will make every seed of goodness present on the ground sprout and grow. This opens us up to trust and hope, despite the tragedies, the injustices, the sufferings that we encounter. The seed of goodness and peace sprouts and develops, because the merciful love of God makes it ripen.

Pope Francis, Angelus, June 14, 2015