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20 Jul

Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Pasturing

Although my family never had sheep, the idea of pastures applies to cows and horses too. Pastures are the rich feeding grounds for the sheep. Sometimes the sheep, like us, believe that the grass is greener on the other side. Sometimes we are lured, led astray. We aren’t satisfied with what we have and venture beyond the boundaries of commitments we have made. We stray from relationships, from family, from faith. Like sheep, we need verdant pastures and shepherds to stay grounded and connected.

Who can be a shepherd? What qualities does it take to be a shepherd? And what does a shepherd do? How can we avoid being “sheep without a shepherd?”

When we are lost, are we comfortable asking for directions? When we ask for advice, are we willing to listen and to follow?

Jeremiah tells us that there are shepherds among us who mislead and scatter the flock. And he also says the Lord, the God of Israel will bring them back to their meadow. Likewise, the psalmist reminds us that the Lord is our shepherd who leads us to verdant pastures and restful waters, to right paths.

Where is your pasture? Where does the Lord lead you? Where do you go to find repose and refreshment? And who are the shepherds who provide right direction in your life?

Jesus teaches all of us how to be a shepherd, a leader, a mediator. He invited his apostles to go away and rest with him for a while. A retreat, a time of quiet—anything that refreshes the mind, body, and spirit—is what the apostles needed. Only then were they able to be pastoral—to have their hearts moved with compassion for those who needed a shepherd.

We are the sheep of His flock! When we gather this weekend to spend time with Jesus, we learn of the depth of God’s love for each of us, a love that is merciful and compassionate. The Eucharist provides us with nourishment, instruction and the capacity to do what Jesus did—be compassionate shepherds to all the “strays” around us!

16 Jul

To Celebrate a Life of Love: Jesse Thomas Rhodes, III

January 1, 1955-July 12, 2018

A beloved husband, dedicated father, generous brother, celebrated lawyer, and faithful friend passed from this world on July 12, 2018 after a brief but critical health episode. “Tom” Rhodes was the epitome of strength, courage, and generosity. He took care of the people he loved, never once shied away from responsibility or duty and always sought justice for those in need of help. Most who knew him will never forget his keen sense of humor, clever wit or rapturous laugh, often even at his own joke. Tom was a stranger to no one, made a friend everywhere he went, was a welcoming and generous host to any but treasured his genuine friendships most of all.

Tom was born in Memphis, TN on January 1, 1955, and lived throughout the South during his childhood and adolescence, but for the majority of his life, Tom made his home in the city he loved, San Antonio, TX. His pride and joy were his two children, Jessica Rhodes (Oakland, CA) and Robert Rhodes (Dallas). He never missed an opportunity to remind them how much he loved them and how proud he was of the people they had become. His dedication as a husband and father was always his first priority. He and the love of his life, Beth, had recently and joyfully celebrated their 35th wedding anniversary. He served as a dutiful brother to his five sisters who are grateful for the extreme generosity and loving care he provided to his late parents, Tom and Carolyn Rhodes, especially during their final years.

Graduated with highest honors from St. Mary’s University School of Law in 1980, Tom had a long and successful career as a civil trial litigator, serving at Lyons and Rhodes for the majority of his career and most recently as managing partner of the Tom Rhodes Law Firm. He was a nationally recognized speaker and author on trial strategy and jury argument. He took pride in his political and social justice work, like his pro-bono representation of the families of 9/11 victims or helping advance legislative change on behalf of his clients. To quote Tom in his own words, “I love what I do.” His passion for the law led him to serve and lead within many prestigious law organizations such as SATLA, TTLA, ATLA, Inner Circle of Advocates (Top 100 Plaintiff Trial Lawyers in the US), International Society of Barristers and AAJ. During his distinguished law career, he garnered innumerable honors and accolades including the following: Inner Circle of Advocates 2010 2018, Best Lawyers “Lawyer of the Year” (4 years), America’s Top 100 Attorneys Lifetime Achievement Award 2017, The Wall Street Journal Best Lawyers in Texas 2017, NY Times Lawyers of Distinction Award 2017, America’s Top 100 High Stake Litigators 2017, and the Trial Lawyers Board of Regents Litigator Award 2015.

Tom was brilliant, eloquent, curious, and a voracious reader. He had many passions in life. He loved entertaining and traveling with family and friends. Tom had a real green thumb and was a true nature lover. He was an avid sports fan and 30 year Spurs season ticket holder. The only thing Tom loved more than winning in the courtroom was winning in Las Vegas. He loved grilling, fishing, his Porsche, the Rolling Stones and his faithful dog Pepper who was by his side until the end.

Tom is survived by his wife Joye Beth Joy, his children Jessica and Robert, his mother-in-law Melba Joy, his sisters Karen Stiteley (Austin), Lynda Rhodes (Austin), Mary Jacobson and husband Jim (Austin), Janet Brown (Houston), his nephews Colin, Patrick and Will Jacobson, Brandon and Perry Read, Clay Joy and his niece Amber Herndon. sister-in-law Kim Read (Monte) and brother-in-law Gary Joy (Terry). Tom was preceded in death by his father, Jesse Thomas Rhodes II, mother, Carolyn Ross Rhodes and father-in-law, Meade Joy.

A funeral Mass will be offered on Wednesday, July 18 at 10:30 am at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church (4201 De Zavala Rd, San Antonio, TX) and a visitation will be held on Tuesday, July 17 from 6:30 pm to 8 pm at Porter Loring Mortuary North (2102 N. Loop 1604, San Antonio, TX).

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to one of the following charities that Tom held close to his heart: Meals on Wheels: mowsatx.org/donate San Antonio Battered Women’s Shelter (FVPS): fvps.org/make-a-donation Family Violence Prevention Services Inc., 7911 Broadway, San Antonio, TX 78209 St. Vincent DePaul Society: svdpsa.org/donate.

13 Jul

Fifteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Traveling Lightly

“He instructed them to take nothing but a walking stick—no food, no sack, no money in their belts. They were however, to wear sandals but not a second tunic.”

Imagine yourself in this scenario. You’ve been with Jesus for quite some time now. You’ve paid attention to all that has been going on. And now, Jesus is asking you to go out on mission. Could you do it? Could you go without any visible means of support, having only the companionship of one other person? Could you live depending on the total generosity of others for food, shelter, and any other support you might need?

This call to leave it all is a radical call. Not all of us are called to leave home and family to be itinerant missionaries. All we have to do is pack for one journey, whether it is a vacation, or a pilgrimage, or even work travel. We often realize that we pack too much! It is difficult to travel lightly; our decisions often depend on a feeling that we might need things, just in case! We are attached to things!

The invitation then is to begin practices of trust and detachment. Some would call it living simply.

What material comforts might Jesus be inviting us to leave behind in order to be a freer and more faithful disciple? What do you really need to go out into the world? Are we able to trust the companion on our journey and do we have the faith that God will provide? Can we begin to travel lightly? And what will we learn about ourselves and our dependence on God in the process?

6 Jul

Fourteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Prophets in Native Places

“A prophet is not without honor except in his native place and among his own kin and in his own house.”

When Jesus “goes home” to his native place, the people take offense at him and he is not able to perform any mighty deeds among them. Was Jesus too familiar to them? Did they misjudge and underestimate him? Why were they so resistant to Jesus’ message?

The Scriptures contain the words of prophets who strongly admonish the people who have been lured by the culture to attend to “worldly things.” The greatest challenges to our faith come from turning our eyes away from God. Misplaced priorities require conversion, the process that invites us to turn our minds and hearts back to God’s word, to God’s wisdom, to God’s universal truth.

Often the conversion that is needed calls us to pay attention to God’s presence and action in our lives. It isn’t easy to be counter-cultural. We might be rejected, like Jesus, by our friends and even by our own family members. Nevertheless, we act with open eyes and brave hearts, listening to the cries of those in need and seeking God’s wisdom, God’s truth.

From our own homes, our own native places, let’s seek to break through the asphalt, the protective walls around our hearts and bring forth new life according to God’s vision for our lives.

29 Jun

Thirteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Reach Out and Touch

In both healings described in the Gospel for this weekend, Jesus breaks taboos of his society in order to give a young girl and a bleeding woman new life. He acknowledges the power of touch. His touch brings a young girl back to life in the presence of her parents. He gives a new life, freedom from intense suffering, to a woman who dared to reach out and boldly touch his garment.

Who are the parents among us who are experiencing the “death” of their children? Yes, some are physical deaths. So many others are what feels like death in that parents feel that they have lost their children to so many realities that threaten the fullness of life—drug use, self-mutilation, mental illness, loss of faith, abusive relationships, and other afflictions that literally seem to take the “life” out of their children. Like Jairus, they cry out for restoration to life, to at least some semblance of the kind of life they want for their children. They pray for God’s love and compassion to make their loved ones feel alive again.

And who are the women who bleed, who hemorrhage today? What are their long-time afflictions, the things that keep them from being the “whole” women they aspire to be? For some, it is sexual abuse often at the hands of a relative at a very young age, human trafficking of very young women, on-going wage and compensation inequalities (equal pay for equal work), double standards regarding physical appearance, the impenetrability of the “glass ceiling,” body shaming, eating disorders, and other kinds of long-term suffering. These women, too, are longing for healing, for a feeling of being whole again, for becoming a new creation through God’s love and compassion.

How will we respond to the readings for this weekend? Jesus is with us, in us, and works through us in this Body of Christ—our families, our communities, our Church. How will we ask for healing? What garments exist that we can reach out and touch? What can we bring to life?

Jesus has given us through baptism an even greater power than his. We can be healers. We can be instruments or garments of healing. May it be so! Lord, hear our cry and move us to action!

22 Jun

The Nativity of St. John the Baptist

Advocating with Our Voices

Many of us use Lectio Divina when praying with Scripture. When we do that, we read the Scripture multiple times and identify words that stay with us, words that “find us,” words that catch our attention perhaps in ways they never have before. Upon further reflection or meditation, we often find that those words or phrases speak to our minds, hearts, and lives. They call us to change our minds, hearts and lives in some way. This is how we describe conversion. This is how we become followers of Jesus.

This Wednesday morning, the story of the Birth of John the Baptist spoke to me in several specific ways. The image above helps! “They rejoiced with her.” It is incredible, miraculous that a woman of Elizabeth’s age, an advanced age, gives birth to a child. The message: All things are possible with God, if it is God’s will, God’s intention. God dwells in possibilities; hope lives.

The second awareness I gained is that Elizabeth used her voice to name the child. The angel announcing her pregnancy told her that the child’s name would be John. Over the protests of those representing the custom of carrying on the family legacy, the culture of naming the child after the father, Elizabeth won’t have it and gives the name John. Suddenly Zechariah is cured of his inability to speak and repeats what Elizabeth had already said. (Sound familiar to anyone?) Definitively, his name was to be John.

What’s in a name and who does the naming? It matters, doesn’t it? Zechariah Jr.’s name would mean “God remembers.” John’s name means “God is gracious.” Birthing in advanced age for women is a bold action. Having a woman determine the name is a bold action. Both were God’s action in Elizabeth’s life.

From this rather revolutionary (turning things around, sometimes upside down) birth, we have John the Baptist. John was born to lead Jesus into a new future. He lived his life to prepare the way, a way of life that turns remembering into graciousness.

For me, there are connections to what we are experiencing in Texas right now. John the Baptist prepared the way for Jesus. Jesus always stood with the most vulnerable. What would Jesus say? What would Jesus do? Do we see Jesus in the children? Do we see Jesus in the mothers?

What conversion of mind, heart and life is Jesus asking of me? How do I name what is happening? How do I use my voice to advocate for those vulnerable ones, the ones Jesus called “the least among us?”
With tears in my eyes and a heart breaking with empathy, I have to believe that with God all things are possible. And I also know that like Elizabeth, others joined her in belief and joy. Others confirmed her naming and made radical change possible. May it be so for us!

Can we follow Jesus in his action for love above law?

15 Jun

Eleventh Sunday in Ordinary Time

Going Beyond Planting Seeds

Jesus often used trees and plants as symbols for God’s action. Planting seeds isn’t enough. Much work is required to promote growth and flourishing.

In the creation story, we learn that God created abundant plants and trees. And God said that it was good. Today we have an opportunity to continue God’s creative work in caring for the earth and its abundance. Pope Francis has written an encyclical, Laudato Si’: On Care of the Earth. Father James Martin summarizes that document with these top ten takeaways:

  1. The spiritual perspective is now part of the discussion on the environment.
  2. The poor are disproportionately affected by climate change.
  3. Less is more.
  4. Catholic social teaching now includes teaching on the environment.
  5. Discussions about ecology can be grounded in the Bible and Church tradition.
  6. Everything is connected—including the economy.
  7. Scientific research on the environment is to be praised and used.
  8. Widespread indifference and selfishness worsen environmental problems.
  9. Global dialogue and solidarity are needed.
  10. A change of heart is required.

(America Magazine, June 18, 2015)

In the ecological crisis that we face, Pope Francis reminds us that we can awaken our hearts and move towards action. We can be the voice that cries out for the earth. And if we want to act, Catholic Climate Covenant has resources galore to put our faith into action. With St. Francis as our patron, we can also pray the Canticle of the Sun often.

As you listen to the readings this weekend, notice the many references to nature. Praise and thank God for these gifts of beauty and goodness and pray for an awakening of our hearts to greater care for the earth, for ourselves, and for future generations.

11 Jun

To Celebrate a Life of Love: Albert Robert Dutson

October 29, 1930-June 3, 2018

Albert Robert Dutson passed away peacefully on June 3, 2018, at the age of 87. He was preceded in death by his parents, Albert and Francis (Rubio) Dutson, and sister, Elizabeth “Betty” Canales. He is survived by his wife, Dolores C. Dutson; his former wife, Lillian D. Dutson, and their children, Albert T. and Dina D. Dutson; and numerous grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and countless other family members and lifelong friends.

Al was raised in Laredo, TX, and known to all as “Titire.” He graduated from St. Joseph’s Academy in 1949. Shortly thereafter, he gained admission to the Tecnologico de Monterrey in N.L., MX, on a football scholarship. In 1951, Al enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corps serving in the U.S. Marine Corps serving in the Korean War and was honorably discharged. In 1957, he graduated from St. Mary’s University in San Antonio, TX. Al remained in San Antonio following his passion for airplanes and negotiations and was employed in procurement as a government contractor for over 40 years with Kelly AFB, Alamo Aircraft, and Chromally Gas Turbine, respectfully. Al believed in God, the importance of family and friends, a strong work ethic, and he knew the meaning of sacrifice.

Visitation will begin on Thursday, June 14 at 9:30 am with a rosary to be recited at 11 am at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church. The funeral Mass will be offered following the rosary at 11:30 am. Interment will follow in Fort Sam Houston National Cemetery with military honors.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Alzheimer’s Association in memory of Albert R. Dutson on behalf of Dolores C. Dutson. Donations may be mailed directly to the Alzheimer’s Association San Antonio & South Texas Chapter, MAC 37 Building, 10223 McAllister Freeway, Suite 100 in San Antonio, TX 78216 or donations may be sent online at https://www.alz.org/sanantonio.

11 Jun

To Celebrate a Life of Love: Allen E. Swize

May 3, 1932-June 6, 2018

Allen E. Swize of Helotes, Texas, born May 3, 1932, passed away June 6, 2018 at the age of 86 with his family by his side. He was called home by the Lord to join his beloved wife of 60 years Betty Swize, parents Emil and Susie Swize, son Christopher Allen Swize, and great-grandchild Addison Wente. Allen is survived by daughters Cheryl Wente (Tom) and Debra Marmor; grandchildren, Christopher Wente (Melissa), Suzy Villarreal (Michael), Eric Wente (Brittany), Matthew Marmor, and Emily Marmor; great-grandchildren, Taylor, Nikki, Hallie, Tommy, Bear, Kyle, Carson, Reagan, Eve, Allen, and Presley; 4 brothers, Daniel Swize, Myron Swize, James Swize, Emily Swize, Jr.; sister Darlene Moczygemba, his beloved dog Snickers, and a lifetime of friends and neighbors. Allen served with the United States Navy for four years during the Korean War. After he returned from the service, he devoted 40 years of his life to work with Southwestern Bell Telephone Company.

Visitation will begin at 6 pm and the rosary will be recited at 7 pm on Tuesday, June 12, 2018 at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church. A funeral Mass will be celebrated the following day, Wednesday, June 13, 2018 at 12 pm. Interment will follow at Mission Burial Park North.

1 June

The Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ

Meal and Sacrifice

Each Sunday we are offered the meal that sustains our faith. Our participation at Mass through prayer, Scripture and song, our reception of the Eucharist and our being sent forth are all elements of the Eucharistic celebration. We remember God’s activity in our lives, we ask for forgiveness, and we resolve to act—to live the Gospel message in every aspect of our lives throughout the week.

Accustomed as we are to think of all the healing and miracles we read about in Scripture, the communal aspects of a meal shared, the satisfaction that comes from nourishment, we also know that the Eucharist is about sacrifice. We remember that Jesus emptied himself, even unto death, out of love for us.

In the Responsorial Psalm this weekend, we ask ourselves, “how shall I make a return to the Lord for all the good he has done for me?  …. to you will I offer sacrifice…” What is the sacrifice that love demands or asks of us? We often see and hear what sacrifices parents make for their children. We can see what sacrifices wives and husbands make for each other because of love. Where do you experience sacrifice in your life?

Sacrificial love is self-sacrifice with the pure motivation to alleviate the suffering of others. Sacrificial love says I love you even when you are not very lovable. Who are the suffering among us?

These are some of the images of suffering that come to my mind:  images of children taken away from their parents at the border; images of families who have lost children to gun violence in schools or who are affected by that violence because they were there to experience it; images of persons who, because of skin color, gender, sexual orientation or anything that makes them “different” or “the other,” are to be feared, held suspect and become the object of others’ hate; images of women and children who become the objects of sexual desire; images of persons who work multiple jobs and still cannot find affordable housing; images of those living with diseases of addiction, mental illness.

Pope Francis offered this reflection on the Solemnity of Corpus Christi:

Let us ask ourselves, in adoring Christ who is really present in the Eucharist: do I let the Lord who gives himself to me, guide me to going out ever more from behind my little enclosure, in order to give, to share, to love him and others?

What is my response of love and sacrifice to those who are suffering? How does my understanding of Eucharist send me forth to act?